Do you like him because you like him, or because he likes you?

Many of us at least have ever had asked our dates, "Why do you like me?" But girls, why do you end up with him?

He's smart. He's funny. He's rich. He's experienced.

But what if he does not treat you well?

Do you still like him?

How do we usually describe a guy? He's sweet. He's cute. We tend to measure a guy by how much he has done for us, don't we?

Yes, I've said that we all love jerks. Because the one that wins us by treating us well is not always our best choice.

I've been thinking that maybe it is right- men do know what love is, whereas women only choose to be with a man that knows how to treat her well. In the very beginning, we are attracted to certain attributes to this guy. Later on, it is how they treat us that decides whether we want to carry on or not. In the past, I was very still young. If this guy did only one thing I did not like, I would never be involved with him again, regardless the other 1,000 things he did for me. So I drove myself crazy. Now I look back, that was too immature. Our ultimate goal is to be happy. If he is perfect but he does not appreciate you, will you still be happy? Let me make this clearer. A has $10,000,000, but he would not give you anything. B has $500,000 and he gives you $100,000. Which do you want?

Be your own judge.